The Key To Success

Pinch…punch..first of the month and all that jazz! I tend to spend January reflecting and adjusting to the New Year. By the time February comes around the new years resolutions are either out of the window or being implemented. One of my main new years resolutions is improving my communication skills amongst the people closest to me. Somewhere along the way I lost the ability to tell the people that matter to me the most how much they mean to me.


There’s a difference between having a conversation and truly connecting. The first does not necessarily require any depth of conversation, whilst with the second, who you are talking can really make the difference between simply conversing and having a connection.


Being able to express your true feelings is a key part of communication. There is strength in vulnerability when shown to the right people. Being a closed book does not help anyone understand your story.


Less ego more energy….the 2016 motto for a better year.


Unlocking your emotions can be difficult. Especially when you have had bad experiences in the past. However the majority of us have at least one shoddy experience.Whatever does not kill you will only make you stronger.


Everyone is different so although its not the best idea to wear your heart of your sleeve it does not then mean lock away your heart and throw away the key.



Use your smile to change the world, do not let the world change your smile.



Photography Anya Sandul

Styling Alex Canizaires

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. Karina says:

    This a beautiful post! Amen to this and I can relate to trying to have better communication and finding a way to express my true feelings to people close to me, thanks for the inspo 🙂 x


    1. mulanitoje says:

      Thank you hun! Really appreciate it.


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